It is not a sex act, it is not a game, and it is not a role.
The traditional collar is a neck band in leather or metal, chosen, designed, and even crafted by the dominant partner.
If you are not candid, you will experience lots of disappointments along the way because your dominant will be trying to satisfy you based on wrong information.
She believes that everyone should make room for love in their lives and encourages couples to work on overcoming their challenges together.
This means that they have order in their own personal lives.
They crave obedience and need to be in control.
Instead they could have used gender neutral pronouns, as there are sub males, dom women, and gay and lesbian relationships.
The more you push, and the deeper your sub sinks into a scene, the less lucid her thoughts will be.